Mamya. It's seems a shame we can't edit. Not alter the question or answer, but errors in the text, like spelling errors, or errors caused by predictive text, etc.
Some sites do ask 'are you sure you want to post this' causing you to proofread your copy - altering after you've sent is it seems open to possible abuse.
A lot of ladies are also attracted to gay men because they know they are not sexually threatening or predatory to women - they are a safe crush, like a pop star or film star you will never meet