First m.i.l. Was a wonderful woman, very intelligent, (self taught) creative and larger than life. F I l was a warm and l oving man who treated his stepsons as well as his own. Brothers in law... Didn't know the oldest two very well as they lived abroad, number three was a dreadful flirt, as in he was rubbish at it, and my husband's youngest brother was just a really sweet young man. Partner two had a lovely family, a mix of Polish and Lancashire, and sadly Dave had no surviving family. I was very lucky to share my life with people who had nice families.