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I’m Not In The Least Bit Jealous But
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Ok so I feel safe to post here cos no one on AB knows who I am…
Husb has been sending seriously (!!!) explicit (and cringeworthy) texts to someone he has known for years.
I am not jealous (I know many would be but I just don’t have the “jealous” part in my nature!!! )
The issues I have are:
A they are seriously cringeworthy
B she is not reciprocating (via text at least) so that makes them even more cringeworthy
C if her husband finds out he will not be happy I assure you!!!!
D lady involved is not the full ticket mentally ;by that I don’t mean she’s sub normal intelligence (she used to be very switched on) but she’s beginning to lose her marbles (Im not the only one who says this - many others have noticed too)
I’m almost more insulted that he doesn’t bother to hide it tbh.
Husb excuses it by saying that I should see how many Inuendos etc she throws his way in person (he sees her once a week work related) ….but I think he’s making an idiot of himself and playing a dangerous game.
Husb has been sending seriously (!!!) explicit (and cringeworthy) texts to someone he has known for years.
I am not jealous (I know many would be but I just don’t have the “jealous” part in my nature!!! )
The issues I have are:
A they are seriously cringeworthy
B she is not reciprocating (via text at least) so that makes them even more cringeworthy
C if her husband finds out he will not be happy I assure you!!!!
D lady involved is not the full ticket mentally ;by that I don’t mean she’s sub normal intelligence (she used to be very switched on) but she’s beginning to lose her marbles (Im not the only one who says this - many others have noticed too)
I’m almost more insulted that he doesn’t bother to hide it tbh.
Husb excuses it by saying that I should see how many Inuendos etc she throws his way in person (he sees her once a week work related) ….but I think he’s making an idiot of himself and playing a dangerous game.
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It looks to me as though he really believes it is banter, but he doesn't know where to draw the line (which he's probably well over IMHO). Someone needs to make it quite clear to him that he is OTT and in danger of possible prosecution. Your steadfastnes
22:06 Wed 01st Dec 2021
Hi not trying to justify his actions at all. Just because I’m not the sort to throw a tantrum nor be jealous does NOT mean I’m in agreement at all.
He’s being a ***!
But I do think he fails to see he’s overstepped the boundaries ….
As for what he’s said about it .,., well each time I bring it up he gets p*seed off n tells me “it’s just banter”. He simply won’t discuss it. So I’ve given up trying.
He’s being a ***!
But I do think he fails to see he’s overstepped the boundaries ….
As for what he’s said about it .,., well each time I bring it up he gets p*seed off n tells me “it’s just banter”. He simply won’t discuss it. So I’ve given up trying.
Eve I don't avocate you throwing a wobbly or raving at the female involved ( if indeed she is actually involved and not a victim)
A simple email on the lines of
'Hi I hope you don't mind me contacting you but I believe my husband is sending you explicit emails. He's been quite open about it to me, and I understand you are not reciprocating. I've told him this is not acceptable and hope this is not worrying to you. If you need support don't hesitate to get in touch'
A simple email on the lines of
'Hi I hope you don't mind me contacting you but I believe my husband is sending you explicit emails. He's been quite open about it to me, and I understand you are not reciprocating. I've told him this is not acceptable and hope this is not worrying to you. If you need support don't hesitate to get in touch'
