Ever since I was a kid, it would be very easy for me to ignore people. I don’t know why, but once I ignore you, I will probably not think of you ever again. Let me give an example, let’s say you and I were best friends for 15 years. Once we get into a situation where we aren’t speaking, I probably wouldn’t speak to you EVER again. Is that weird? Can anyone relate?
It could be seen as a bonus to be able to wrap up the past and ignore the fact that it happened but conversely, the past and our experiences help us grow and make us who we are.