Do I Keep Trying To Make An Effort Or Move On?

[abbeyleigh]

This guy I been on and off dating for 3 years. I keep trying to meet up with him but says he busy or working but he said when he first started talking for first time in ages that I never made an effort before and thought I was after one thing. If he is saying he working and not sure if it an excuse do I keep trying or give up? I'm really beating myself up for trying harder

[douglas9401]

Move on.

[rowanwitch]

Sounds like he isn't really interested. Don't waste time on something going nowhere

[carrot99]

You've asked 69 questions and given 14 answers. That makes you a bit self-centered and maybe the guy sees that in you and so keeps his distance.

[Cloverjo]

As it’s been on and off for three years, it doesn’t sound like it’s going to stay on.

Time to move on

[elliemay1]

abbey, you really need to start making decisions for yourself

[smurfchops]

About time you made your own decisions, grew up and maybe commented on helpful people trying you help you on here. Perhaps a thank you would be nice.