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beanmistriss - as I have said endlessley but nobody seems to be listening - I do not for a second think that only fathers should pay.What I am saying is that when one of our children decided she didn't want to live with him anymore he decided that he would have nothing to do with her and refused to pay a penny to the csa,yet even when he has refused to let me often see my son's I have still bought their school uniform and sent it over,bought them mobile phones to contact me,put credit on them,paid yearly bus passes,etc etc etc,even bought food shopoing as they were growing lads and taken that over,even though I had to leave it on the doorstep as he wouldnt answer the door.
Yet even after all that he has out of the blue put in a csa claim against me when I probably spend more a week on what I have listed then what the csa would award!!
I just think that he should have helped toward his daughter,especially when I was a single parent with often barely enough food to feed us both at times.