When Your Husband Says………

[Smowball]

That you’re utterly useless at everything……. And you say sorry can you repeat that, and he does……. Am in utter shock. I could put it down to the fact that he’s had a drink but I don’t think just 2 glasses of red wine really counts. Don’t really know what to do with myself now - hardly the build up to my birthday on Saturday that I expected. Am genuinely in shock.

[MissTerious]

gopec89370The Op asked a question. This is a Q&A site, not a cuddle and sympathise site. I am a retired health professional ...

Chatterbank is very much a cuddle and sympathise section.

[gopec89370]

I am sorry if I have caused offence. I thought I was answering a question when, in fact, no question was asked. I only added my advice following reading others' opinions on the OP's husband. I also did not read which section it was in. Thank you username Sqad for understanding the sentiment of my reply. To everyone else, maybe cut some new users some slack and be a bit more welcoming. This site is not really for me so I won't contribute further.

[MissTerious]

Very wise post from an Old Geezer :0))

[anneasquith]

A pity, another one lost .

[Redhelen72]

Hardly surprising the reaction that they were given
It seems that between the Ed and a few on here you have to be careful who and what you comment on!

[ladybirder]

We do have a laugh sometimes gopec, honestly.

Smow has been advised many times over the years to kick her OH into touch because of his behaviour towards her. He spends a lot of nights away from home so plenty of chances if he chooses to play away. But she puts up with it and I think she will continue to do so. The move will have to come from him if there is one.

Sorry Smow but that's my opinion.

[anneasquith]

With most relationships on AB we only get ‘ one side ‘ .

[MissTerious]

I am sticking to my thoughts on this. Maybe I'm wrong, we all can make mistakes. I usually welcome new users!

[windywillow]

And you’re welcome to them, MissT, as are others.