If You're Out Late With A Date, Do Your Chances Increase Of Her Wanting To Come Home With You?

[Karzonian]

It was my birthday a few weeks ago and she took me out for drinks. We got very close, a lot of touching, kissing and hugging. Very positive to whatever I said and did. Her birthday is coming up and I asked her to send me her address so I can send her a gift (we live in different cities) and she said no don't get me anything, we'll just go out again.

On my birthday, we went out on a Sunday and I had work the next day so I had to cut the night early. Around 10pm. Otherwise she wanted to keep it going. For her birthday, it will be a Saturday and i'll have a hotel booked for the night. If we're out until 3am/4am, is it safe to assume she'll want to come back to the hotel?

[Ken4155]

Have you told her you're booked into a hotel for the night? If so, how did she react?

[Lie-in King]

Always remember the (rather trite) "When you assume, you make an ass out of u and me".

Treat her kindly, don't push, don't expect & don't be disappointed if she doesn't want to go to the room - if she spends all that time with you, it's likely (IMO) that she'd be agreeable to another date or two. Good luck to you both :-)

[davebro]

You can't "assume" anything these days! If she agrees to have sex with you make sure it's written down & notarised.

[Canary42]

Don't try to rush her. And your assumption is somewhat bizarre. How serious are you anyway, cutting off at 10 o'clock just because of working next day ?