Does he fancy me?

[Hedkandi]

Hello everyone,

Was hoping for a bit of advice here about this guy at work.

Basically, a few months ago i caught him staring at me, but then looking away quickly when I turned round. We were a bit drunk one night and I caught him looking at my chest area, but then he noticed that I'd seen him do it and looked away embarassed. We then had a kiss on this lips but nothing else happened. When we were at work, he was acting awkwardly towards me not addressing any of the conversation towards me, only to other people.

Recently, we all went out from work and we were saying goodbye to each other and we kissed each other on the lips again. Since then, I've caught him giving me lingering looks across the office, but has started saying hi to me and chatting a bit more towards me now. Today, he came up behind me in a queue for our canteen and started humming to himself. I think he was trying to attract my attention as he seemed really happy to see me and said hi.

What does everyone think of this? Any advice greatly appreciated.

Thanks,
Hedkandi xx

[laurence2]

Do you fancy him also tho?

[bobtheturkey]

he was probably worried you were going to take the last sausage roll before him

[sunflower71]

Go for it, talk to him, ask him out even.

Life is to short to miss opportunities.

[Al_Ucard]

Sounds like an axe wielding homicidal maniac to me but I might be wrong.

[wizard69]

what you waiting for girl? he's obviously attracted to you but comes acrosss as a bit shy and awkward.I agree with sunflower...life is to short to miss oppurtunities.If there's any chemistry there get to know him and take the bull by the horns, ask him out for lunch.Long gone are the days when you have to wait for the man to make the move.If that were still the case I would never had got together with the woman of my dreams...I was just like your fellow at work.Good luck.

[jno]

in my day men plucked up courage to talk to women first, and kissed them later. It's a bit odd to hear this done in reverse. Still, if you'd like to know him better, why not say 'Hi!' back?

[evo 6]

hi hedkandi ye i reckon this guy deffo fancies ya and you should go for it some blokes are a bit shy when it comes to trying to chat up women so i reckon you should make the first move at the end of the day whatevers going to be will be he might just need a nudge in the right direction good luck hope it works out