One NIght Stands

[RebeccaSJ]

Have you ever had a one-night stand? I'm a singer and I am on tour about eight months per year. Once I toured for 13 months! It gets very lonely out there on tour and opportunities abound. I'm sorry to admit that I succumbed to the loneliness on two occasions and picked up guys for casual sex. I didn't even get their names. Have you ever had a similar experience?

[China Doll]

Well I usually got their names! ;0)

I think there's a few of us out there who have gone the one night stand route a few times. Personally I tend to think that (although fun in the short term) if you're in a bad frame of mind they can leave you feeling worse/more alone than before, especially if you're using them as a substitute for love.

That said, it's done now, there's no point in beating yourself up about it so move on.

[delboy3]

When & where's your next gig?

[andy-hughes]

Never.

I don;t want to sound highly moral and pious, although in print I suspect I will anyway but -

I couldn't even kiss a girl i didn;t feel something for emotionally, much less have sex with her.

I was propositioned by a gorgeous girl in a band a few years ago. But nothing came of it, although i often think about her.

[sn�gs]

Rebecca... did your liaison include the obligatory 'walk of shame'?

You know... 5am... shoes and knickers in hand... looking for a taxi lol...

[RebeccaSJ]

Thank you, everyone. Your answers are helpful.

[JFinch]

Yeah.  I was an athlete.  Travelled the world in my sport.  Olympian.  Sex is rampant in the Olympic Village.  Yes, I've done it.