What Do I Do?

[abbeylee90]

I'm running out of money and think I been getting underpaid as only earning £120 per week but I don't want to tell my mum 

[smurfchops]

Talking about going to The Ivy and you don't have a job?  

[Karamia]

Abbey have you ever tried waitressing in a local family meal type pub? We have a lovely one around the corner and there are lots of young staff taking dishes of food to tables, collecting empty plates or glasses - helping in back kitchen (not necessarily using tills or taking orders). My first job was bar work and we had such a laugh together. It felt more like being on a night out every night we worked. You might find it improves your social skills and would meet lots of new people.

[abbeylee90]

I wouldn't say it my socail skills if I got friends? I bet you do.

[Karamia]

At 21 33 you said you sometimes feel anxious when meeting people for first time. 

Being a server would be fun enjoyable work with other people of similar age to you and you might just meet a future partner there. When I met my (now deceased) husband, he was working as a barman and was very popular with the ladies and could gave a good laugh with the guys, despite being quite shy when he was younger. 

[abbeylee90]

He said he felt anxious about meeting new people 

[Karamia]

And you said ....'and that how I feel sometimes tbh'

 

[abbeylee90]

Well don't we all

[Karamia]

Good luck tomorrow ringing the tax office. Hope you get your wages and correct tax code sorted and a refund.

[brainiac]

Aye, right

[newmodarmy]

Abbey, you gave karemia best answer on 27th Decrmber yet you clearly haven't done what was suggested as you're still posting again this week claiming you're only getting £120  a week for 21 hours work. 

[newmodarmy]

I doubt Abbey is going to be able to sort this herself. 

[Redhelen72]

If she explains to the helpline that she has learning difficulties they will take that into account when explaining it - we always used to

[newmodarmy]

I think the prospects of her even trying to ring hmrc or ask her employer for an explanation of her payslip...are remote.