A Little Emotional Confusion

[StupidGuy]

So, over my years of living, I have had what I would call, 'best friends'. Who hasn't? But what I have found here, feels like it puts that title to shame. There is this one friend, I have had less time with than all the others, that I legitimatly feel like they deserve the real title of 'best friend'. Whilst with other friends, I have always supported them, but never to an extent that would effect me all that much, this person is someone I would have as a friend, even through thick and thin. I would support them until it would cost me more than I can give. I have celebrated their wins like my own, and I want nothing but the best for them. The only reason I put this question up, is because I think this sounds like romantic attraction to me. I haven't really considered who I'm romantic attracted to in my life, but I don't know how I should feel. Is it wrong to feel like they are a vital part of my life, or is that begining to form some romantic attatchment?

 

Im sorry if this was a bit of a long read, I start typing and I just can't stop till I'm done! 

[Alan365]

For one reason or another some peopel mean moore to us than others. I found out wjho my friends really were in 2017 when I had a left sdided cerebral infarct when my wife had to look after me 24/7 and do eerything. There were those who were there for us and those who most certainliy were not.

[Old_Geezer]

I don't think that a friendship need be romantic simply because it's a strong one. I think only you can decide whether you think it is.

[barry1010]

I love one friend like a brother, have done for decades.  It's not a romantic love though as I am not sexually to him but it's fair to say I love him as much as I love my wife, but in a very different way.  He is a vital part of my life.

[Old_Geezer]

Multiple new joiners today ?

Have fun guys.

[barry1010]

All new users are welcome, OG

[pastafreak]

O_G...no newbies here that I can see.