Girls, would you ask a guy out?

[Susan123]

If he was giving you the right signals and implying that he wanted to see you again, but you knew he was inept at the social skills of asking a girl out, would you take the bull by the horns (so to speak!!) and ask him out? Trouble is, I only have a small window of opportunity, ie it's this weekend or else I won't see him til next year. Oh the dilemna of it all! Any suggestions please???

[nat_84]

Well if he's going away for a year then you have nothing to lose.....?

[China Doll]

Well if you won't see him til next year anyway I'd go for it!

[bumbletum]

Get in there!!!!!
Ask him out...... this year...next year.....if you wait for him it will be never......

He must be shy..!!! Bless

[888sally888]

Go for it - nothing to lose and everything to gain!!

[joannie10]

definately - just casually ask 'free for a drink before you go' or 'fancy one for the road' or something?

[unruliejulie]

God, yes, go for it. Life's too short. I would have been too shy years ago but these days i wouldnt have a problem with asking a man out (my hubby might though lol)

[WendyS]

Well, when you see him, you're just going to have to take a deep breath and say:

"It's such a pity you're going away soon. I was trying to pluck up my courage to ask you out and you'll be gone before I'm brave enough !!"

Then give him a really big smile and look as if you're trying to tease him about it. If he doesn't respond to that initiative when it's laid out on a plate for him, you'll have to accept that he's not going to accept the bait.