am i asking a lot?

[1sleepychik]

so are there still any sensitive and caring guys left in the world or have they all gone off to the war? i don't think my qualifications are that far out. thinks of others, sweet natured yet tough, up for no holds barred discussions (and i do mean deeply intense), very open minded, unique, most of all is mentally resilient...

[raysparx1]

I think I am pretty much what you descibe,as are my two sons, 28 & 31 both single, and they both ask, guess what,

Are there any decent girls left out there ? so it works both ways, you just haven't met the right one, yet.

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, i am unique...

[Surreygirl30]

lol i think exactly the same thing as you - all the men i meet are either taken, gay or straight but not manly enough. Finding a guy is a nightmare lol

[China Doll]

Ray.... where do your sons live?! ;0)

[raysparx1]

Hi China, We are in North Wales, But from London originally, you ok ? xx

[China Doll]

Hiya Ray,

North wales a bit far for me to go alas... ;0)

All good sweetpea apart from a really rather bad hangover. And I didn't get to bed til 3am either.... not good on a school night!

How's you? All well?

xx

[CrazyDaisy80]

My Partner is sensitive and caring!! It has taken me Years of horrible Men to find him though!! I had given up but then he came a long and he is so lovely to me. I cannot believe how lucky I am sometimes.

Don't give up, they are out there!!

Daisy
xXx

[Goodsoulette]

Ask myself this everyday, unfortunately despite how wonderful I am *smirk smirk*, I am getting on now and have lots of baggage that guys I like, arent gonna want, I think. Im not old enough to be interested in the much older guys who dont mind the kids : (

I have to agree with Ray the right one out there is somewhere.

[wonderwoman1]

i ask myself the same thing every day too!! its a pain trying to find a decent guy, I am getting on a bit and i feel i will be left on the shelf. I should take the advice my friends give me which is "if you stop looking he will find you" so I tell myself everysaturday night"i am not looking, i am not looking" but of course i end up looking!! lol

p.s Rays sons look like lovely guys....hey ray!! xxxx

[1sleepychik]

wow. i guess i just needed some love and not to feel so alone on this. responses are great, all. i don't feel totally hopeless, just...deterred. ray's lucky he's got such good sons. i think we attract what we radiate. maybe just gotta radiate to the right person.

[China Doll]

Oi golden knics!! I got in there first for Ray's sons... you keep your mucky paws off! ;0P

Sleepy, don't worry about it... I'm sure someone will sweep you off your feet when you least expect it. xx

[caz247]

u should try searching in Glasgow believe me i've kissed enough frogs lol
I keep thinking i'm past it then i wake up next day and look
in the mirror and think not yet
we just need to think positive.

caz x

ps. we should start our own AB singles club lol

[filthiestfis]

those that cant find a decent partner should seek the answer within themselves. I know I do.

[Amber1571]

Hi Ray

Where about in North Wales?

[raysparx1]

Hello Amber, Conwy Valley, are you In North Wales ?

[ahar]

I have given up.

[1sleepychik]

well china, mind you ray does have TWO sons. :) sharing's alright then, lol...

you're right though. just have to be patient. caz, one has to turn into a prince. we hope!

[China Doll]

Sleepy, I'm not so good at sharing... I like all my options open ;0)

But seriously, too many people get stuck with the thought 'oh my god, I'll never meet anyone, I'll be left on the shelf' and this kind of thought leads to bad mistakes.

Enjoy what you have, not what you don't.

(And you leave Ray and his sons to me ;0P ..... Ahem, sorry Ray, I'll behave now!)

xx

[raysparx1]

China me old darling you carry on as you are, you got a great sense of humour, I like you, wish I was a bit younger,you would wear me out, LOl xx

[China Doll]

Lol! Ray, If only eh?! Ah well, I'll just admire from afar xx