There's a slight difference between that and the Goldilocks problem.
With the billions of stars and planets, it's almost inconceivable that a life form should not arise somewhere. That lifeform would almost certainly gaze at the stars and marvel at the improbability of its existance.
There are billions of stars and planets but we can observe only one universe - one constant defining the strength of gravity, magnetism, the speed of light etc. wherever you are in the universe these are the same.
We have no idea how these came to be set at the values that they are - perhaps there are billions of Universes too but basically to be Science a theory must be testable and this one is not.
You might be interested in a philosopher called Karl Popper.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karl_Popper
and here
http://www.bbc.co.uk/radio4/history/inourtime/ greatest_philosopher_karl_popper.shtml
He worked on what is and is not science and the relationship between truth and science and is very irritating to people like TonyTed as he pointed out that absolute truth is alien to science.
Most important is his falsification principal which states that for something to be considerred science it must be possible for it to be proven wrong.
Obviously then if it is possible for anything in science to be proven wrong it cannot be absolute truth.
Hence when TonTed says "physics is fact" he contradicts one on the greatest philosophers of the twentieth century