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I was wondering why won't my wife wear stockings for me, if you know what i mean. is it just my wife or do other women refuse to dress up for there man.
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It very much depends if you're "demanding" her to dress up or not. less pressure = more chance she'll do it for you. I would tell her that you love seeing her in stockings, but that you don't want to make a big deal of it, and are sorry if she has ever felt that she "has" to do it. I think you'll find this approach has its merits.
OK, you've got a lot of posts saying that your wife should dress up for you, and how much the correrspondents enjoy doing it but ...
it is an individual decision, and it may be that your wife just doesn't feel (mentally) comfortable with this. From her point of view, she may feel that dressing up objectifies her, and that you will be making love to a fantasy figure, and not to her. I'm not saying this is how you feel, but it may well be how she feels, and it is her feelings that matter at the end of the day.
Some people are simply not comfortable doing something which others regard as perfectly ok, and exciting for them in their own relationship. If your wife doesn't feel that this is something she wants to do, then wou will accept it, because you love her. Won't you?
perhaps she doesn't want the focus to be on her thighs and bum...does she have any cellulite? that would be the main problem for me - i'd feel they wouldn't stand up to such ogling.
get her something that covers a bit and shows other areas off.
why not dress up for her - get the ball rolling, show her that you are not thinking of it as turning her into a glamour girl for you to objectify, but are thinking of it as a bit of mutual fun.
get something fun and daft such as a crocodile cod-piece and a bow tie, or something more fantasy based like a tarzan flap thing and thongy boots - or something - only you knbow the sort of thing she would like or find funny - nothing sleazy or too vulgar but imaginitive and fun.
also think partnerships - like morticia and gomez, tarzan and jane, emma peel and steed etc rather than random clothes - that will bring out the roleplaying side of her and perhaps get he into the idea of dressing up rather than perhaps feeling silly
maybe she feels that if she wears stockings for you...that it's the stockings you'll find sexy, not her.
maybe she's never worn stockings before, and she's uncomfortable with the thought of wearing them.
maybe she thinks she'll feel silly or embarrassed dressing up.
maybe she feels uneasy with the thought all your focus will be on her in stockings...what she looks like, how her wearing them is making you feel good, etc .
I know that's a whole lotta maybes...but i all comes down to one thing - make her feel comfortable, special and loved, no matter what's she's wearing (from trackies to stockings!), and soon you should reap the benefits! Oh and don't forget to return the favour - do something that she would like...whether it be a sensual massage or arriving dressed as Tarzan! :o)
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