Hiya crete x. Well to be honest, I don't believe I am as he and his wife separated years before he met me and they haven't been together in all that time. They just didn't bother to get a divorce until now. But to put things right, he set it in motion. So, if this is living in sin, then so be it! I can live with that. I have truly been through enough in my life and feel I deserve this love we have found. Besides, I nearly feel as though Kevin found him for me. They are so alike in their intelligent , tactile and loving gentle ways. :o)