y do people go back out with each other

[hinder_kit]

after they broke up!!!!! i can't stand it!!! its so stupid,y go back out with someone that dumped u!!!!!! y do ppl do that,i almost did that once, i really loved this guy and then he dumped me for another girl,i was so ******,but over that,i was heart broken,so sad,i wanted him back,but i couldn't he hurt me so bad,it took me over 4 month just ot get kinda over him,and that was b/c there was another guy in my life,but im still hurt,and its like idk maybe a year. so just tell me ur reasons!!!!

[teag1rl]

Why do you care so much about what other people do hinder_kit? It seems you get quite worked up about people having sex without love too. Just get on with your own life and stop worrying about other peoples so much. Maybe when you grow up you'll learn things arent always black and white. This isnt meant in a b1tchy way, I just think you should use your energies on you and not worrying about what other people do!

[claireyfairy]

because they want to be together.
Situations change, people grow up and stop pratting around (and are occasionally lucky that the other person is willing to give them another chance)

I am currently seeing my ex-fiance again and am now perfectly happy thank very much.

[snagged]

There's also the 'better the devil you know' element... when people break up and emotionally feel vunerable, miserable, unconfident etc. a 'quick fix' can be to get back with the person you were good with previously...

[4getmenot]

Because you never know what you got till its gone, therefore you get it back.

[4getmenot]

I�m sure when you are older you�ll understand, things aren�t that simple as being dumped and going and finding someone else the next day to ask out.

[hinder_kit]

tea:i was just woundering,and i don't care if ppl have sex without love i just think that its wrong,they can do it if it makes them feel ok,just dont ask me to do it and me just jump on and do it.

clairey:i know what u mean,and im happy for u,i guess it does sound ok if u put it ur way.its just mainly like ppl that go on and off again for like 10 years,i dont get that.

snagged:that makes a lot of since too.b/c i can see some of my friends doing that,but only like two of them.i know tim,dumped tessa,and tessa wanted to go back out with him,and then when tim said yea i want to be with u too,she didn't want to be with him nemore. kinda funny right?.lol.

4getmenot: that makes since too.and i know u can't just dump somebody and get another date the next day.lol. i only know 4 ppl that did that,sidney,tanner(they went out with eachother,sid dumped her b/f for tanner)
and my ex.,and laylani(my ex. dumped me for laylani)
so yea u can only plan to get someoen right after u dump someone.

[ummmm]

How old are you hinder?

[4getmenot]

I can be a bit of a hypocrite in this situation though, as I have finished with boys and wanted them back and even pleaded with them but when a bloke has finished with me and wants me back I say �Tough, you dumped me for a reason, deal with it� :-) I�m a minx :-)

[hinder_kit]

im 14 almost 15.

4getmenot: thats funny.