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[Donkey]

My girlfriend says that she is going to go topless on holiday , how can i tell her that they hang to low with out me upsetting her ?

[Skinny]

I feel really sorry for this poor girl - what a horrible boyfriend she's got!!!!

[Donkey]

im only wondering how to tell her, when she was 21 they was great but now she is 27 they have just dropped.

[kags]

if this is a genuine question, then you should understand that breasts come in all shapes and sizes, and the firm orb-like ones you see in the media are rare on a woman over 19 unless surgically enhanced. Your girlfriend obviously feels comfortable with her body, and she is absolutely right to feel this way. You must be extremely careful not to knock her confidence, because this is a problem you have, not her. Ask yourself why you are feeling like this, what are the real issues. If you were happy for her to go topless before, then are you treating your girlfriemd as some sort of trophy to be paraded around? Some men do not like their female partners to go topless, and they may have valid reasons for this which they can discuss as a couple, and reach a decision both partners are happy with. Yours does not sound like a valid reason to me, you have come across as immature and shallow, and if you approach your girlfriend in the same manner, she will be hurt and upset.

[saffstar]

Well said Skinny & Kags! Are you a bronzed, muscular Adonis type Donkey or do you have some imperfections too? Might she be worrying about how you'll look by the pool? Unless you want to have the worst holiday of all time you should keep your mouth shut & be glad that you've got such a confident, up-for-it girlfriend

[thekraut]

so, just to answer the question: not at all. don't even think about it. and stop worrying about what people you don't even know might think.

[Gef]

"They hang too low"? Oh grow up; listen to all the sensible answers so far and have a great holiday!!

[BenDToy]

At least you thought about the fact that you would upset her, so there is hope for you! ;-). But I agree with all the others - DON'T BOTHER. Why on earth would you want to tell her that?

[Donkey]

Hay calm down everyone, Saffstar - I am bronzed and muscular thanks for enquiring. Your self ? Kags - Immature and shallow ? not me but all trophies do become outdated Gef im sure it will be a great holiday off anywhere nice your self ? BenDToy, top answer thanks

[cuse]

Though some are saying its immature and/or shallow, maybe YOU need to think about what really is bothering you... 1) other people to see your girlfriend topless 2) what other people will think when they see your girlfriend topless IF you are happy with her and yourself, then why be concerned. However, if your not happy with her appearance, maybe you should bring it up or take a good luck at how strongly that matters in your relationship. Finally, youve been with this 'girl' for six years and no ring? ... is that important to either of you? Is this a serious relationship? ;)

[saffstar]

I'm a little closer to being bronzed at the moment cos I've just got back from my hols but I'm not in the least bit muscular (I tell myself that girls aren't meant to be to make myself feel better!). I was just making the point that very few of us are completely perfect physical specimens. As someone who's seen the population of a foreign beach recently, I can promise you that if all that's wrong with your girlfriend is that she's not as perky as she was she'll still probably be in the top 2% of good looking people there! I'm very sorry if I seemed snotty yesterday, I put it down to Monday blues! Have agreat time.

[thewillow]

Saffstar - you shouldn't be apologising for sounding snotty. Donkey sounds like a right t*t.

[Donkey]

thewillow you sound pretty clever yourself !! Anything to add to thread or was you just passing through and felt the need to speak ?

[saffstar]

A saggy right tit? tee-hee - couldn't resist that one!!