What would my grandma have wanted me to do with my life?/as a career/in general??

[Willow22]

when I was younger I had grandmother...she was like a mother to me, it was her who took me out places, taught me stuff and generally looked after me. I don't really remember my real mother doing any of this sort of stuff. anyway..my grandma looked after me really well...and sort of raised me really well back then as well...she started me off on horse riding lessons..and was the best grandma anyone could ever wish for..she was going to sort of raise me really well. I never thought she'd die it was awful. When she died however my life changed drastically....I was at the time sent to the local comprehensive and my I began to notce mre the neglect by my real mum. I need to ask ...what would grandma have wanted me to do with my life? Who would she have wanted me to become? I know she would have raised me well.....but I don't have a clue (since I was only 11 when she died) what that really means now. What should I do? I was never allowed to speak to her before she died. What would she WANT me to do with my life??

[ummmm]

I'm sure she would have wanted you to be happy. So do something to make you happy. Like I said before, go back to college, get the GCSE's you want and get a good job at the end of it. You can be happy but you'll have to make an effort. But I think you know this........

[raysparx1]

as ummmm, says all any of us want is for our Children to be happy, if you are happy being a bank manager great,but if you would be happier being a road sweeper,be a road sweeper, whatever path you choose,try to be happy,if you get any job that makes you unhappy,quit that job and do something else.

[MiniN]

She'd want you to just be happy.

You know you're doing the right thing when you feel proud of yourself!

[CherryPie1]

It has all been said... Be happy and be proud x

[WendyS]

She would have wanted you to make the most of your skills and talents because a fulfilled person is generally a happy person. So, take advantage of all the educational opportunities which are offered to you and set high standards for yourself in what you want to achieve.

Your grandmother started you off on the right course, encouraging you to learn new things, like horse riding. . Just imagine she's still looking down on you and urging you on to seize your chances of developing yourself. Never spurn learning and education in whatever form it comes - from school, college, learning new hobbies and interests because offl of these things will combine to make you an interesting and well-rounded individual when you are older.