Revenge for two timing???

[sam100]

What do you think is suitable payback for someone who has been two timing you with someone who is a semi-friend?

Just found out that someone who i have been seeing has been also seeing someone we both know and playing us off against each other!

i now know about her but she doesnt know about me..

Do you think that i should tell her???

And how do i deal with him???

[w.h.y.?]

ye syou should tell her!!you should boil up some sort of revenge together ohh you should make him squirm the plonker,and as tempting as it could get to forgive there most definatly is no forgetting as hard as you my try you'll always know his a cheat.
and revenge is so sweet!!!!

[sam100]

How do i go about telling her though?? email or text or what??

I know she has been fed some rubbish story about me being a trouble maker so he can cover his own back..

[froggequene]

Revenge is a dish best served cold.

Either confront him on your own, or contact her & confront him together then let your friends exactly why you've dumped him

[froggequene]

I posted my response before you answered, how do you know she's been fed a story about you?

[sam100]

Because she has no idea whatsover and an email got forwarded to me by mistake...

[sam100]

and unfortunately no one else knows about me and him or him and her as well all work in the same office together!! hows that for complicated!!!

[ummmm]

How long have you been seeing him?

[sam100]

Not very long only about a month and i only just found out about an hour ago that he had been a scumbag...he's on a working holiday at the moment on the other side of the world and not back until Mon was supposed to be meeting him for dinner Tues!!

[froggequene]

I'm assuming it's the 'boyfriend' who's sent this email, he's exposed himself as a manipulative sh*t so just dump him, don't even mention you know about the other girl, make up some bullsh*t about finding it difficult to have a relationship in the workplace & maintain a professional working relationship.

Smile & co-operate with him at work even if it kills you and keep that email safe you may need it.

[-Zorro-]

castration

[ummmm]

Just dump him by email....telling him something like 'I'm really sorry but I don't to see you anymore.....because you are crap in bed and do not fulfill my sexual needs'

If you haven't slept with him.....tell him that he's ugly and you have become embarrassed to be seen with him....That'll dent his ego!

[noxlumos]

No revenge, just let it go. Be deadly honest with him and tell him you know he's seen someone else, you don't want his excuses or a conversation about it with him , you've just made the irrevocable decision that you don't want to see him as you are worth far more than that.Be grown up and he'll feel so belittled that you'll have all the revenge you want without looking childish.

[ummmm]

Noxy....you are just full of sense!!

[sam100]

Just cannot believe the cheek he had....how can you be telling someone you want to be with them and then s******g your mutual friend!! They way some people think is beyond me...and to be honest he is nothing special!!!!

[joby1]

Give him a B job and accidently nip him on the knackers, hard then tell him you know, and p1ss off out of your life!

[joko]

get her in private and explain and show her evidence etc etc,

then, freak him out by inviting her out at the same time as him. pretend you have been chatting and are getting on really well...both of you play dumb and act innocent, as though you are none the wiser - and watch him squirm!

[Hellion]

My favourite 'get back' was the air stewardess who dialled the speaking clock in New York from her cheating boyfriends home just after he left for a two week holiday, he came back to find his phone off the hook and a very large phone bill!

[chicklin]

I wouldn't waste your time plotting revenge - he's not worth another second of your time! By all means tell her if you want to - she shouldn't waste her time either. If you all work in the same place and he carries on working his way through the entire workforce, soon no-one will be speaking to him!! Then he may get the message.. I suppose you'll have to be civil to him when you're working together but other than that don't even acknowledge his existence!

[sophie_1003]

if u can get the other girl to agree.....get him in the position where he thinks hes gonna get a threesome then handcuff him and leave him there as long as necessary, preferably with a few photos being taken to show to everyone you know to warn them off him

[ummmm]

I think that maybe illegal Sophie!