Happy!

[xJx]

iv been with my bf now for about 3 weeks but we were seeing each other for a good 8 months beforehand we just weren't official. we get on so well and although i have only known him since march time he is the kind of man i'd want to spend the rest of my life with. i am so loved up and never felt like this before. he has told me he loves me also. over the weekend i am going away with a few friends to a sporting event that we attend every year and one of my ex is going to be there also. my bf knows this and today started saying how he thinks i still like him and stuff. after what got to be quite a heated discussion over the course of 20 mins i got a bit annoyed that he would think such a thing. he said that he was joking with me but i could tell he is bothered about it. we got talking about us and he then asked me whether id ever marry him and that he only wants me for the rest of my his life. whether he was 'joking' again i dont know but that kind of thing is kind of big so iv been thinking about it ever since he mentioned it. do blokes joke about this kind of thing? sad i know after 9 months of knowing him and only being 21 still but im really happy he mentioned it. am i being a bit too hopeful or would he only bring this up if he actually meant it!?

[raysparx1]

Hello xJx,

great to hear you are really happy,bit different to most of the questions on here, maybe your boyfriend just felt a bit insecure about your ex,could be that he can't believe how lucky he is and he thinks it is to good to last,but I can only speak for myself on the marriage thing, I only ever asked one girl to marry me,and we are still together,it is not something I would have ever said as a light hearted thing,cos that is such a BIG question,so I would think he meant it,hope you remain as happy for hundreds of years, Ray xx

[chicklin]

Yep, I agree with raysparks, your bf sounds really worried that you are going to be in the same place as your ex when he's not with you. So he could really could do with your reassurance that its him you love. By mentioning the dreaded (by most men) 'M' word he's probably trying to show you how serious he is about you and your relationship, and perhaps testing the water to see how serious you are. Bless!