You'll probably find they are covered in the small print of conditions ( which, let's face it, I don't think any of us read and inwardly digest, they seem to go on for ever ! ) -
What ever has gone on , why can't you just leave it at that? You mention there's been a disagreement between you and the site owner. I'm afraid you'll find they hold all the cards. Isn't there another way of contacting your boyfriend? I can then better understand your dilema if so.
Finally ( perhaps using a computer in the library ) but explaining who you are, e.g. remind them of your e-mail address you can just try and appeal to their nicer side and, if this is so important to you, just say sorry and plead for a second chance given the circumstances. Tell 'em you were drunk, you've been having a bad time of it lately because- blah, blah, blah- : be nice and contrite. You've had a lesson well learned, be more carefull in future, and good luck, let us know how you go on. God Bless*