Inappropriate Crush

[milly143]

I have a little crush on a guy at work who is almost twice my age and married. Of course I wouldn't dream of acting on it but how do I get it out of my head!?!?!?!?!?

[ummmm]

Sh*g him

[mrrobbo15]

milly....just come to me and tell me lol.....

[enigma]

You obviously know deep down that it would be wrong to act upon this crush , given that you yourself have titled your question "Inappropriate crush". We can't help who we are attracted to but we can help how we deal with that attraction. If you mean what you say - that you wouldn't dream of acting on it - then it isn't really any more than a harmless fantasy and there is nothing wrong with that. It's when the thoughts of turning fantasy to reality creep in that it becomes a problem. There are plenty of single men out there without having to chase after the married ones. Get yourself out there and find yourself a nice distraction from your current interest.

[Hawkwalk]

do you work in my office??

[milly143]

ha ha ha. I never thought you would both suss me out!!!

Right, ill be off to find myself a man I can have then. Anyone know any men!

[enigma]

Hmm. What about my brother ? He's tall , dark and handsome , 29 , not a bad cook and could entertain you with his sense of humour and ability to play most musical instruments. The catch ? He's still superglued to the apron strings and will need to be surgically removed. Are you up for a challenge ? For my parents' sanity , please take him. He's free to a good home.

[wonderwoman1]

Enigma, if Milly doesnt want him can i have him??? lol

[milly143]

I'll take him!

[enigma]

Okay Wonderwoman and Milly , I don't want this to turn nasty , so you'll have to flip a coin or have three rounds of paper , scissors , stone ! Sadly though , I think that he knows he's on to a good thing staying at home getting all his meals cooked for him , washing/ironing done etc. He had his own place and gave it up to move back in with my parents. Mummy's boy , tsk ! I pity the poor woman who gets him lol ! You would have your work cut out trying to change him - seriously.

[wonderwoman1]

Heads!!!!

[milly143]

Damn your quick thumbs Wonderwoman!

I may have a problem with that Enigma, I can just about make toast and don't even know where the iron is in my house! (that's not a proud boast)

[enigma]

Naughty naughty Wonderwoman - what have I told you about using that double sided coin ? Well it WAS going to come up heads of course , wasn't it ? Any more cheating like that and i'll have to disqualify you !

Milly - He can cook ......... he's just too lazy to do it half the time ! So unless you would live on toast , I fear that you would both starve to death lol ! Oh and forget him ironing or loading a washing machine. Hmm. So crinkly , dirty clothes and toast for breakfast , lunch and dinner ? Not sounding like such an attractive offer now , is it ? What about you Wonderwoman , are you a domestic goddess ? Never mind though Milly , he could always cook you dinner ............ if you could give him a kick up the backside to get him into gear. Anyway , he's had it too good for too long. I think that what he needs is a dominant woman to put him in his place and say that the party's over - he's going to be doing all the work now. So who's the bossiest then ? Come on girls , you need to show him who's boss !!!