Dark Past

[4getmenot]

When the killers of James Bulger were released they were given a new identity and if I'm right one of them has a child now. I'm not sure whether the mother knows his past. But if you had a child with a man then he admitted to killing a young child when he was young himself what would you do?

[mimififi]

and to answer the question (sorry), I would like to think that I would be savy enough to know that someone I was that close to was hiding something before I got down the road of living together/reproducing.

However, if I wasn't and did get caught up like this, I think, sadly, I would quietly take the children and leave one day, leaving a note of explanation and asking for him never to contact me again. I may even go as far as seeing my MP an dasking them for identity change so I couldn't be found, depending on how in danger I felt. But I certainly would not be able to trust that person with my children to any length at all.

Maybe I'm a bad person, who knows, but I would also worry that my child might end up doing something awful if left in contact with the father. I don't know, it would just be something in the back of my mind.

I feel all sad now. I'll have to go into christmas section and read all the christmas questions to cheer myself up.

:-(