men wearing womans shoes

[havinmysay]

i have a friend who has 2 young children and about a year ago she told me her partner had bought a pair of white stiletto pvc boots for himself without telling her when she later confronted him about them he just said ''im not gay i just like womens shoes''.He keeps the shoes under the bed and my friend always notices that they have been moved when she has been out.she has started to look at his searches on the internet and saw that he has been looking at ''how to walk in womens shoes'' and doggin sites.She told me on saturday that this is really getting to her and been put on anti-depressants,she has only told me about this and i really dont no what to say to her but ''it might be just a phase'' i need your opinions on this.
serious answers pls xx

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