Love Life Snapshot

[Eve]

Give a brief snapshot of the main relationships in your life so far...

Age (you), where and when you met, how long you were together for, why you split up and the best and worst things about them and best and worst memories.

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[joby1]

met at 14, got together at 15, had a baby at 16, split up at 18, got back together at 23, married at 24, had son at 29 and daughter at 32, still married 13 years next july. Thats it. :-)

[joby1]

Sorry, met in the local park, got together at a 15 birthday party.

[LazyGun]

No.
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[PinkFizz]

me 15,him 18,can't remember where we met,stayed together for 4 years and split up coz he was an insecure nutcase
me 18,him also 18,were together till I was 29.Split up coz he was a manipulitive bully.

me 30,him 25,together for 5 years,he was a manic depressive.

God I don't half pick em!!! lol

[larkin]

Met first of all at about ooeer 11 ( I was a mature 12!). At school together but never really spoke until about 1980(me 6th form, he 5th). Had loads of laughs together in the one year of 6th form we shared together but we had a mutual group of friends who all played sports (hockey rugby footie etc together on a Saturday). Great times.
I left school in 1982 (him 1984 as he mucked up a levels),I had a gap year and went to college. Left in 1986 without finishing my degree . Bad times.
Came home to my parents. Guess who was their lodger, having taken a job in banking in the city where they had moved to?
He picked up the pieces of a big mess and helped me through loads as a friend. Intermittent relationship - his dad died and I helped him through that. Took me out for a meal to say 'thank you' in 1988 (not together at the time).
Here I am 18 years later, married, 2 fab kids - although they took their time in arriving !Couldn't be happier regards relationship.
Best memory -Telling him I was pregnant and the look on his face !
Worst memory - 07/07 - he had interview for a new job in London.
Phoned me to say he didn't know what had happened but he was ok and told me he loved me.
Then the next 3 bombs exploded and I didn't hear from him until 3pm. Longest and worst 6+ hours of my life.

[larkin]

Nah, Pink Fizz, not just you - someone in between for me who was a complete manipulative bully too. They know no boundaries. Lot of people like that about ....not just male, before I am chastised !!

[chicklin]

couldn't possibly!!!!

[larkin]

what chicklin ? give a brief snapshot- or chastise ??

[ummmm1]

Nor could I

[chicklin]

Larkin - I'm quite good at chastising so it must be the snapshot bit I'm leaving alone ; )

[samuel23]

Me 14
1st love H. (ahhh ~ sweet!) 14
met on her dad's farm in Suffolk, (went to get some eggs for my mum)
lasted a whole summer and split coz parents moved to Kent. Was heart broken >sobs into hanky<
Best thing about her was that she taught me to kiss, worst thing was her two brothers (both older and both a pair of sh1ts)
Best memory was hearing her laugh as I tried to ride her horse, worst memory was her two brothers laughing at me when I fell off her horse.
Me 18
S 18
met at Uni, October 2000
lasted 3 years
split coz she went back home to Bedfordshire and I was too immature, stupid and lazy to carry on a long distance relationship.
best thing about her hard to say but she taught me to play the guitar, had a great attitude, and she was so clever (far more intelligent than me) and she was fun to be with
worst thing was she had a habit of getting drunk and then letting rip at the nearest person
best memory was skinny dipping with her in Corfu
worst memory was hearing her cry when I said we were splitting up coz she lived too far away (what an ar*ehole I was!)
Me 22
D 23
met at her sister's party
still together and lovin it
best thing about her too many good points to pick just one , but she has the most stunning blue eyes and she only has to look at me and I melt
worst thing about her ~ she keeps nicking the duvet lol
best memory (so far) was our last holiday in dominican rep
worst memory finding out she has a serious health problem that is going to affect her for the rest of her life.

[joby1]

best memory... phoning his house and saying, 'guess where I am", his reply " theres a thousand and f@ckin one places you could be"....My reply...."yeh try maternity ward ** hosptital, tell your mum and dad cos my mum and dad are coming round", then hearing the phone drop@ I had a totally concealed pregnancy. That baby is 20 in feb . :-))

[sair5412]

First kiss, first boyfriend age 15-18. Finished with me and brike my heart.

Age 18: Manipulative bully who used to make me look down when we were out together, if i even glanced at another man, he would go mental and usually punch the poor unsuspecting creature. Used to drive me to remote places and threaten to leave me there unless I agreed to stay with him. Locked me in his room for 3 hours until i agreed to stay with him. Once pulled the keys out of my car as i was pulling onto a dual carriageway and ran off on to the grass banking until i begged him for the keys back. He agreed once i'd promised to stay with him. It ended up with him chasing me up the street with blood pouring out of his head after a male friend beat him up for pushing me over outside a club and throwing a bottle at me. I eventually called the police, who only sent him home. He stalked me after that for about 6 months and I couldn't leave the house without my dad. Then I moved away.

19: Fell in love with a gorgeous half french half itallian who I found out cheated on me more than i probably know about.

22: Thought i'd met love of my life at uni. Got engaged after 6 months, bought house, fell pregnant. Turned out ectopic. Fell pregnant again (luckily!) He couldn't cope, threatened to jump under a train on 2 occasions. Then when our son was 10 months old, I found out he'd been sleeping with another girl in our living room while my son and I were upstairs in bed. Left him age 24 and moved back to home town.

25: Met another "great guy" who turned out to be a complete coke head once my son and I were in bed. (Found pictures on his phone of the lines of coke him and his mates had done on out libing room coffee table- did i need more evidence!!?) Split with him at 27.

Now dating someone i met online but starting to get a bad vibe already. Hmmm, maybe I should become a nun? Or is it too late?

[littleone85]

I had a string of various childish relationships from age 12-16, longest being 8 months when i was fourteen. When I was 17 my friend moved into a flat with two other people I'd known from school, I became really good friends with one of the people my friend had moved in with and eventually we got together, at 18 we moved in together, I'm 21 now and he's 22 and we're saving to get married.

[crete]

no thanks.