is it love

[kinky_kaz]

How do u no if he trusts you? is it when hhhhhe says i love u or not??? plz help

[darth vader]

is this before or after sex?

[bernardo]

There is no magic answer - you just have to learn from experience with each person. Unfortunately, learning when to trust people often depends on having bad experiences with other people beforehand. Having any sort of relationship or friendship is like doing an essay or homework - you have to work at it and learn from your own mistakes.

[kinky_kaz]

this is afta sex, plus hewas in a five yr relationship before we started out! so he he sayin it becos he is used 2 loving sum1 or is he sayin it bcos he does love me or maybe its bcos he feels he has to rush in to it

[Senga-Marie]

If this is the standard of literacy we are coming to in this country with the current generation , then Lord help us!

[secretspirit]

Kaz, I think trust just comes over time and once you've really got to know eachother. If he says he loves you and means it then trust should be a part of that. And sorry, I know I'm going to **** off the regulars but I don't know why they don't start off a 'pedantic rant/spelling & grammar' section. A lot of people on here must have very high blood pressure. I'm exempting the 'blanks' questions because they'd make Jesus swear.

[andytreble99]

not that i'm particularly "regular" but i feel the comment was partly directed at me. On my part its not pedantry and its not about spelling or indeed grammar. I don't understand why there has to be this conscious dumbing down into text speak, how much more time does it take to write the words "after", "you", "please" "to" or "because" rather than "afta" "u", "plz", "2" or "becos/bcos"?... that's all

[gemagination]

Kaz, you'll know if or when he loves you because you'll feel relaxed about it on to grammar, i find it really really hard and slow to read all of the text sentences am i thick or boring?