Seeing Men

[girlieflirt]

Ok here goes if anyone is bored at work..i met a guy last August in a club..We spent time chatting, consequently exchanged numbers and went out for a drink...We started seeing each other for a few weeks, no more than twice a week...We only ever kissed each other and nothing more happened sexually..he seemed to like me and respect me and didnt try anything on..We went out this particular time, and he mentioned he would be going to Paris and asked if i would go with him..I thought this was far too early days, got scared and told him i wasnt sure on how i felt about things..he said he was gutted as he liked me and thought i was lovely..This was back in September..We have kept in touch, the odd text and phone call here and there...We went out twice recently over xmas and new year and had a great time, i thought we seemed to get on better and thought may be i should see what happens..We havent seen each other in a week and a half and are meant to be going out tomorrow night..I haven't really heard from him, i have text him twice last week and that is it...we haven't made contact since Sat and i havent contacted him about tomorrow night..Do i leave it? Presume we won't be going? Is he playing me at my own game? Or trying to be all cool about things? Thanks x x

[steve2010]

just txt him to confirm,if he does not reply,then you know the dates off

[ummmm]

I really don't understand this shall I text shan't I text. You need confirmation so text. Follow your gut instinct. If you think he likes you then he probably does. Either way, you need to know weather or not to shave your legs....so text.

[Roughquest]

Men are weird, they seem to be unable to keep the contact going and then run away - with not a word heard from them again, I seem to pick these ones everytime, I am sorry but forget him, its obvious the date is off my dear, keep busy and get on with enjoying yourself, I am sure when he knows you are not bothered that seems to bring the little boys running back somehow....I hate these stoopid games too, it does annoy me, why cant people just be straight with each other ?????? No mean NO and yes mean YES for goodness sake, if you dont like someone then just say it.

[geminij]

i have to agree men do seem to have a problem with keeping up contact, but id still send a text saying something like still on for sat, if no reply or a lame excuse make that the last

[ummmm]

Text him

[girlieflirt]

Well boys and girls i heard from him last night but all he said was "Hi how are you? Did you have a good birthday? Hopefully you got my text"..It was my birthday on Sunday, he text me on Saturday..Clearly he hasnt paid attention to me as i told him my birthday was on Sunday! I text back saying i had a great time, hectic but good, then asked him how he was..nothing back at all...What a timewaster eh? x x