Relationship Break! Need advice help pls :)

[AJ187]

Well it first started new years eve, my gf was on holiday over the christmas season and she came back talkin about 1 guy inparticular, i know she hadn't been unfaithful, but she was on about himall the time and it just started to annoy me i become easily jealous of little things but since we been on a break i realise i shouldn't be and have learned a lot, back to the topic...well new years eve she was sayin she could be in this place with that same guy instead of been here, which 2 me meant been with me, so i said well go with him then which sparked a row, her best friend gets really involved and told my gf's dad she thought i was going to hit them, i'd never hurt a soul, so now were on a break and she tells me she loves me and is 99% sure we will get back together, but when we make plans to see each other she always comes up with something and then she can't meet me which is making me really sad because on the break we still meet up ocassionally and have warm snug cuddles and kisses but i want to ignite the fire again but she keeps hosing me down, i recently lost my job and that isn't helpin she said 2 me about an hour ago she wants a bf with a job and that ain't me, i can't do right from wrong and it is completly crushing me, i need help and advice, thank you in Advance AJ

[LostStar]

It sounds like she doesn't know what she wants and in the process is just messing you around... Unless you sit down and talk about it (or rather she talks - to try and explain herself) then it sounds like you need to go your separate ways. Good Luck whatever happens.x

[AJ187]

I Know but i try all the time to talk about it and she just doesn't seem interested, but she always txtin me and tellin me she loves me and is certain we'll get back together but i am so unsure what to do and what not to do as i have never been in love before and it is really hurtin me, if i have a job and i'm on track i'd be fine, but i lost my job 2day and she came out with "i want a bf who has a job, and atm you haven't" now she doesn't understand i'm fed up aswel as her maybe even more than she is, it is just killing me because i love her dearly and i don't want to go seperate ways, because in myself i feel theres a chance but maybe i'm been silly...just wish we could properly talk and sort this out so i know where i stand :(

[redcrx]

Im sorry but it doesnt sound like she can care much for your feelings if she says she wants a boyfriend with a job the very same day that youve lost yours. Concentrate on getting a job first and leave her in 2nd place until she becomes more considerate. Sorry if thats a bit harsh.

[AJ187]

no my friend your totally right, i just can't believe this is happining to me, it breaks my heart feeling that she doesn't really care about me or nothing, i try my hardest to get going on the right path you know, i have to find a job and become secure, she says i need sort myself out well thats a shocker because i was okay till today and i lose my job and she says that 2 me it realli hurts. thank you