My friend is being cheated on.

[Fiszi]

A fairly close friend of mine has recently started seeing a girl, about a week ago. Thing is I work in the local offlicence and I saw her in there today, all over some other guy. I stood around the corner while someone else served her. The girl who served seemed to know the guy so I asked about who he was and who she was and was told the she is his girlfriend of about a year. he's a friend of my coleagues other half. I don't know if I should tell my friend whats going on. I'm worried he will think I'm lying but he's falling for this girl fast and he's been hurt a lot recently.

[wigglebum]

Just tell your friend the truth, its better to do it early on than him being really hurt further down the line.

As a close friend why would he not believe you?

[Fiszi]

yeah, seriously I guess he will believe me but a similar thing happened to me a few years about and I told my friend who didn't believe me and we really fell out. She's still with that guy and sill thinks I made it up even though her other half cheated right infront of me!

[wigglebum]

Well she weren't much of a friend if she thought you were lying and still are and she deserves the cheating weasel!!

But just tell your friend the truth he'll thank you in the end xx

[honey130779]

tell your friend and make up a plot to catch the arshole in the act, confront him when he is with this girlfriend (shame on her) but a least the cheating **** will then hopefully have no one, cheating ****.

[honey130779]

wrote the wrong repy to your question, but yes tell your friend, dont let him get to involved, it will turn nasty if you keep it to yourself, give your friend a bit of dignity, good luck x

[PinkFizz]

I would just tell your friend exactly what you saw. Don't say " I reckon she is doing this" or " I bet she has been .....".

Just say the facts as you saw them and say you dont know what to think but feel he should know.x

[Coffeeman7]

Sounds like an episode of cheaters. The truth must out!

[sarnieken]

Tell your mate. your colleague at the Off licence can back you up if he doesn't believe you.
My mate's fiancee slept with a lad on her hen night and made his life a living hell. Got him down something chronic as he honestly believed it was his fault.
No one would tell him the truth and it was tearing him apart. She was taking him for a ride so I told him what happened. He was able to move on and found an amazing lass after that.
There is only one way this can go Fiszi. You must tell him about the sl*g.