Should i end it?

[miz_brunette]

I have been seeing a guy for only a week now. He's liked me for a long time and i think he wants us to get more serious but the thing is he has a really bad reputation and is very well known round my town for having a lot of women...I'm also getting a LOT of stick for even being seen with him and am wondering if is all worth it. What would you lot do??

[snigsthecat]

Take your time to get to know the real story from him and then make up your own mind about things and if his bad reputation is deserved just be friends. Dont get serious until you have all the facts( if he wants to get serious he wont mind you asking questions) because you could end up with a broken heart. If you are getting stick for being seen with him having all the facts will help you to cope with any nasty comments. Hope this helps and good luck...

[stokeace]

theres no smoke without fire you should think of your self respect before you go any further with this bloke,you dont want to end up being just another notch on his bedpost.just a view from a bloke.good luck anyway.

[mullein]

If you want to be another notch on his bed post keep seeing him.

[stokeace]

i bet you are by the time ive posted this lol

[ultraman]

you have to do what you think is right i know that some people get bad reputations because of something that happened and nobody gets both side of a story try not to put to much faith into it i know people that have a bad rep because they may have an ego or they think they are better then everyone else and that person treats the person they are with very well.

[carjack]

Ever heard the phrase "Give a dog a bad name and hang him"

He has a bad reputation for what exactly? Cheating or just having a lot of relationships with women? Could be he is a b****** or it could be that he hasn't found the right woman yet. You say he has liked you for a long time. You haven't said what you think about him, a week is far too short a time to get serious or do you mean sleep together?

As for getting a lot of stick from people, it's really not their business who you spend time with.

The important question is do you like this guy, regardless of any tittle tattle, what do your own instincts tell you?

[StudentGal]

first off, I know this will sound bad but, don't have unprotected sex with him. if he has a rep for 'getting around' you don't know what he might have. I know it's not the advice you're looking for but it's not worth it to get an STI.

I would say, make your own mind up about him. My philosophy is, if you don't see people more than once a month, why should you give a s**t what they think about you or who you're with. They're not a big or important part of your life so stuff them. See how it goes :)

[carmelbaby]

If i wuz u i wld dmp hs btt.. bt if u thk it aint gna wrk in da lng run thn yeah it jst mte be da bst 2 brk it off wit him... I wldnt wnt to b one of hs otha women..