my ex gf

[jasonvdl]

does anyobdy think this is wrong/??
im open to many opinions...

i have jus split up with my ex gf and everything was workin fine, but yesterday i received a text sayin that she wanted to be m8s...
i was fine with this but these were reasons...

1) she didnt have anytime
2) she didnt have much money
3) she wants to concentrate on exams

now she cannot validate these reasons because even though she said she has no money she went out all weekend with her friends to the cinema and to a party.

also she says she doesnt have the time for me but obv she has time for her friends because she went out with them... i fort relationships were about put ur loved one before everything else/??

and if she wer really concentrating on her exams then she would have stayed in all weekend and made sure she got some revision done which is what i did

aftawards she sed she was sorry and i didnt care but jus as i was about to go to bed she sed she still fancys me.. so y dump me???

sorri bout naggin on lol i jus need more opinons...
many thanks

[mrknowall]

She had money to go out with her mates
and had time to spend with them.
Find some one new who wants you.
Her loss
Dont try to understand them ive been trying for 20 years.

[sarnieken]

Have to agree with MrKnowall.
They will always put their friends first am afraid. We partners are always second, not the other way round. Find someone who isn't going to mess you around.

Any man who manages to fully understand women will be a rich one. :)

[ummmm]

Sounds like excuses to me.

Maybe she just doesn't want to be tied down and wants something more casual....

[joko]

it is not wrong.
it is her way of telling you she does not want to go out with you anymore.

she does not have to 'validate these reasons' - she doesn't want to go out with you and she doesn't have to.

she said those things to spare your feelings.

she could have said a lot of cruel things but it sounds as though that although she doesn't want to go out with you, she does not want to hurt you either.

she is trying to be kind, a bit misguided maybe, but i assume you are around 14-16 so you can't expect her to know exactly the best way to do these sorts of things.

move on.

[melons]

Hiya,
Well i would move on as well. Dont analise what you did and why you arnt together anymore, if she wants to give you lame excuses rarther than tell the truth so be it. Maybe she did want to spare your feelings and just wanted to let you down gently. However proceeding to then tell you that she still fancys you isnt nice. I would just ignore that comment and focus on going out with your friends and meeting new people.
Hope this helped!

[Mammar]

She's mucking you about.
Concentrate on that revision and get goods marks.
Intelligent men are babe magnets - they'll be queueing up for you!

[NORMANTHEDOG]

sounds like you are both are about 14/15 and go to school together,dont worry about it,theres plenty more girls at the school.

[Reverandfunk]

Mate trust me the old "can we still be friends" don't work. Deaf her out, move on and fing someone who appreciates you.