Men II

[4getmenot]

After my question yesterday

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Q uestion388150.html

The ex is with someone new, what a joke!!

[redcrx]

well leave him to get on with it and ignore any more calls or texts. Hes just proving to you that he cant handle any relationship, with you or wit someone else.

[4getmenot]

eeuggh no he was never soppy like that, just a bit of a weirdo really.

[Sasha13]

Trying to make you jealous in the hope that you'll suddenly realise the error of your ways and run back to him? ;-)

[opera winfre]

Try not to let him bother you.
Better to ignore him and move on or it might look like youre jealous and missing him.

[4getmenot]

no sasha he is with someone. and it doesnt bother me, Its making me laugh, he will never grow up.

[opera winfre]

Perhaps the woman protesteth too much?

[Octavius]

Interesting to note your previous post and this one 4get. Men II indeed. Are there two men in your life? Is your ex still getting to you?!

[4getmenot]

no I put this on here because its made me realise that some men are just so funny. The only way he's got in my head is to make me think what the Fudge????? :-) funny thing is he's still asking me for another girls number. He gets worse. I'm lucky to have my bloke now. :-)

[Champagne]

I've been in exactly the same position 4get;

After being spectacularly cheated upon we break up and it takes me a month before I can afford to move out of his place, during which time he is off galavanting with his new totty. A couple of times he's at home and after a few drinks tries to flirt with me. Shocking! I since moved out and sporadically get texts/calls from him about insignificant issues even though I made it clear that I want no contact. I ignore every single one of them. This happened up until Saturday night when I pick up a voicemail message from him accusing me of stealing his DVD's!! (I haven't) and I can hear his new woman in background rhyming off which ones he's meant to tell me about. That's the final straw for me and I finally text him back in a calm but horribly sarcastic manner and make it perfectly clear what he can do with his DVD's!

It's outrageous behaviour. It's purely a control thing. He doesn't have a say in your life anymore and he probably hates that you could be remotely happy without him.

At least you can take comfort in the fact that you got out! If he's anything like my ex then you've probably realised through all of this just how much of a lucky escape you've had. I found out recently that my ex is registered on adult dating sites, even though he's seeing this new woman!

[havinmysay]

sound like u've been doin your homework on him to find out he has another gf already

forget him and change your number if he's really getting to u and your new bloke x

[4getmenot]

no I never saked anyone, as I said its a small town so I hear quite a bit.

[opera winfre]

I think theres still a fire in your heart for your ex.

[4getmenot]

well there will always be something there otherwise wasnt love was it silly. But I'd say more some coals that could never be relit :-)

[opera winfre]

Look hun being in denial aint the best place to be.
But only an opinion.

[4getmenot]

yer thats your opinion. No denial about it. I think I know my own mind

[4getmenot]

as I said the only reason I put this was as a follow on, anyone that knows me on here knows how things have progressed for me and my new bloke :-)