Hi Noleymae,
Not sure what a "standard fungicide" is, but why are you spraying? If you are using this fungicide for the powdery mildew and the shrubs are still getting it, then the fungicide isn't working. Here's an environmentally way to control powdery mildew. You can use any one of the first three.
http://www.dirtdoctor.com/view_question.php?id=204
As to your ailing lilac, I'm wondering if the plant is suffering from chlorosis from improper ph levels. I live in Maryland and the soils on the Eastern seaboard tend to be acidic. Lilacs prefer a more alkaline soil. You might want to test the soil for ph where this shrub is located. If necessary, add a cup of lime around the base of the shrub and mix into the soil.
Take a look at this site to see if it helps.
http://plantclinic.cornell.edu/treeshrub/lilac.htm
Here's some other helpful sites on lilacs.
http://www.heardgardens.com/lilacqa.htm
http://www.heardgardens.com/basicsforlilacs.htm
http://lilacs.freeservers.com//lilac_tips.html
Hope this helps,
Newt