Some Advice Please

[chris1987uk]

Ok theres this girl i really like and we get on great go out constantly see each other almost everyday, do things that couples would do like romantic meals and walks etc, she even invites me back to her flat and as she says we are only mates i assumed id be on the couch but she insisted i slept in the bed with her, so i did but nothing happened then in the morning she suggested i pull a sicky and because she wanted me to stay in the bed with her, also 1 nite a few weeks back we were up town and on the way home she took my hand walking down the road and ended up back at hers and were cuddling up in bed, then next day she said we were just friends. She also told sum1 in work that i confuse her at times, she confuses me more like. is there anything in this as i doreally like her and its not right sleeping in the same bed as a mate of the opposite sex unless u have feelings for them. Do i just go for it and try kiss her or wot? any advice welcome thanks

[4getmenot]

yer you should try and make a move as maybe she's waiting too. But then again she said you are just friends, sounds to me like she is a big tease. and not worth it.

[fayelc123]

Maybe she said that you're just friends because you didn't make a move so she thought that's all you wanted to be.
I'd def just make a move or ask her what she wants.
If she says that you are just friends again then you know that she's just a tease & not to waste anymore time on her

[cartman99]

classic western type quick draw situation.

I would bet �1000 that if you reach for the sky she will too.

( that means go for it, if thats what you want)

[Linzi84]

Either she's messing with your head because she doesn't know what she wants, or she doesn't really know what YOU want! I would just kiss her, next time you're with her at her flat, tell her how you really feel, or next time she says 'we're just mates', tell her 'yeah it's a shame you only see me as a mate coz i fancy the a*se off you!' Be a bit forward, girls like that sometimes!

[wleshbeetle]

oh my god go for it! you obviously like each other, the only reason she is saying your just friends as she probably too scared to say anymore just incase you dont feel the same, i say go for it straight away before its too late and you go past that liking each other stage and do just start to see each other as friends! good luck x

[chris1987uk]

Well spoke to her wen both drunk bad idea but it all went pear shaped, made little things up in her head again, and no doubt ill get the usual morning phone call with her saying sorry and beging for forgiveness but she aint getting it, we are only mates as she said, denies any flirting and all tht wish i hadnt met her atall caused me so much pain

[LLASY]

She sounds a bit un-hinged to me Chris, the trouble is with people like her, you never know where you are with them, you have to ask yourself "do I really need all this confusion?" I would move on if I were you. Good Luck x

[chris1987uk]

yeh well looks like i am going to have to, you have probably been there yourself its hard to move on when you fell for someone and they made u think there is something there, but its always wen she is drunk she goes like this usually we get on great and basically are a couple but then she has to much to drink and she goes like how she was last nite, but thanks for your help anyways people