Husband's Affair - Financial Question re moving in with her!

[mrsflowers]

Just found out my darling husband of 10 years has been commiting adultery with the ugly office bike - I am bitter but it is true!!
I've started divorce proceedings but he thinks he is going to be able to walk away from the marriage financially ok and start a new life with a nice new house/car etc. He's got a daughter from his first marriage who he pays �100/month maintenance for and we have got a 7 year old son who he will have to provide something for. Also we have a joint mortgage. I don't know how this will work does he have to pay some mortgage and maintenance for our son or do we just agree an amount and decide about the house? He earns about �1000 month so he is going to struggle to get somewhere on his own with bills etc. Does anyone know how things would stand financially if he moves in with his 'girlfriend'? i.e. would her wages be considered or not. He really does NOT deserve to land on his feet after the way he has treated us. Any info/advice would be really helpful - thanks!

[redhead23]

hey MRS
Sorry to hear about your slime ball husband , i would suggest that you get advice from the citizens advice bureau , and also mabye speak to a solicitor , so you get a accurate answer.
take care x

[CushtyFred]

Your husband = Top Player!!

[mrsflowers]

You haven't seen her!!!!!!!!!

[redhead23]

is she a dog???
she sounds like it going after another womans man
cant she get her own sad cow

[mrsflowers]

I'm not a bitchy person by nature but oh my god she is a dog - if he'd have gone off with a beauty it would be understandable. She has got a track record of stealing married men going thru mid life crisis - especially ones she works with who have young children. I would be more bothered if it wasn't for the fact that he's been a crap husband and a disgraceful father over the years (yes I know why did I stay with him, believe it or not I felt sorry for him what a MUG i've been).

[redhead23]

hey mrs could not find ur post !
you sound to me like you have had a licky escape , its his loss not yours and that old dog and him sound like they suit each other ,
shame she preys on married men
but also shame on him

i hope the ******* gets nothing !

[mrsflowers]

Thanx everyone for your comments, its going to be interesting if he has to move in with her as shes got 2 teenage kids - god knows how he will cope with that when he doesnt even care about his own!