meeting the right girl

[ultraman]

why is it hard to meet the right girl it seems harder and harder to meet girls most of them (not all of them) want guys who drive really nice cars or have a ton of money or have some kind of super cool life style why is that?

[ummmm]

They don't. I have never met a girl that wanted those things. Most girls I know want an honest man with a good sense of humour and who treats her well. Anything besides that is just a bonus.

[4getmenot]

well you got it right saying meeting the 'right' girl because any girl you mention is obviously wrong. Not all girls are like that and any that are arent happy in the end anyway. If you think like that you will never have the confidence to meet the right one

[Reverandfunk]

Ultra, just be yourself and don't try to hard. If you meet someone who is only after material things, move on to the next. Maybe its where you're meeting people, I met my partner off Friends reunited dating and have never been happier, but before I met her I met loads of people who weren;t for me. That person is out there and in time you will find her, but in the meantime just enjoy looking!

[xCharliex]

you might be being a little bit picky, i dont know, next time your out why not look for the one sat, minding her own buisness haveing a good time rather than the ones with next to nothing on being the centre of attention!!!!

[cartman99]

Ultraman, sorry to be blunt but you need to pull yourself together, stop acting so many questions here and go find some answers yourself.

Find some confidence. No one is better than you.

[redhead23]

ultra why dont u try speed dating in your area , you will find people who want to be in realtionships , but like you only meet people in clubs pubs or who are wrong , its 20 pound for a nite and a great laugh , im going as im sure you have seen by my other posts all the men i meet are losers

and beleive me most women like a kind man with a good sense of humor and who wont let them down xxx

[redhead23]

oh ultra does not respond booo

[Trinny]

ultraman, its just as difficult for us women to find a decent man too you know!

[loulee89]

I've fallen in love with a man who is very in debt, drives but can't afford a car never mind a really nice one, and has one of the most boring lifestyles ever!
He's not the drop dead gorgeous type i usually fall for and i now realise that looks are definitely not everything!

But when i'm with him i couldn't be happier!

[Suade7]

The girls that want things like that, are girls that have not experienced much of life in my opinion or have not got much going about themselves. I dated a very wealthy pilot for a while, who drove an array of nice cars etc etc, I became very bored when I got to know him and realised his possessions were all he had. I have now met a man who I have been with for three years, we have not got two pennies to rub together, but we talk and laugh and have many things money could never buy.... Good Luck,xxx

[meaty]

Well if the bixh wants money she aint worth it

[Tha-Flash]

Get a nice car and a ton of money, then you'll probably realise that you don't get women that you want. Think about it yourself, would you rather be with a girl who is a 10/10 (in looks) who is a real bitch and boring or an 7 or 8/10 who has a great personality and sense of humour? I think I would be safe in saying all girls just want a guy who makes them feel great while not putting them on a pedestal.