the one ???

[legend759]

DO YOU THINK THERE IS SUCH A THING AS "THE ONE"?You know folk say to you "one day youll meet the one".Like its some buddist god or some chosen person.I think its just birthday card p!sh btw.Reflecting on my life i can say ive probably met "the one "on much more than one occassion.Leading me to suspect its just a case of "the one at the time".Rather than the much heralded and spoken of "one"for life.What do you think and can you show any evidence to prove your point or are you just going on trust?A risky thing nowadays lol.

[red~bez]

Legend....believe me you will know when you meet "THE ONE"........you just know..... :)

[Rubyrose]

I don't believe in 'The one'... I believe in 'The one for now'!

Everyone you meet can be the one but people change and you and that person may not be on the same path for long... at one time they probably were 'the on' for you but now... they have grown and so have you and unless the unlikely event occured that you both grew in the same way... then it's time to move on!

[legend759]

too true.if they were so good and went their own way maybe i was the one for them.just a pity they werent the one for me .lol.sounds good in a valentines card but in real life its a different story.save it for some starry eyed fool.lol

[red~bez]

Rubes....this is just experience talking hun.......I'm 44 now and it took me until I was 34 to find out I was with the one......was in two long relationships before and in each of them I thought.....Nah somethings not right....It was just a feeling....

[Rubyrose]

Bez... I thought I was with 'The one for 5yrs... and turned out he couldn't have been further from what I wanted! I meet 'the one' every day... different guys all full of potential to be my 'the one'.. but the fantasy fades and reality kicks in and you realise life is what you make it.... it's not written in the stars!

My 'the one'... my 'soul mate'... is my best friend... her and I have been best friends since we were 13.... and I couldn't imagine life without her. Who's to say my 'soul mate' is someone I am destined to be with, and not someone who I can forever rely on and be the best of friends with?

[ELVIS68]

There was a bloke on here called "the one" he changed his name to "kingelvis"...he`s swimming with the fishes now ;o)

[redhead23]

legend i see it as you are MR RIGHT NOW NOT MR RIGHT BUT MR RIGHT NOW LOVER

[Studhunter]

There's a messy one on BF that would suit you right down to the ground!

Rubbery Hose ~ Can that really be you?

[unruliejulie]

I believe there is such thing as "the one" but too often we settle for "the one right now" thats when things go pear shaped! Its just trying to find "the one" that's the difficult bit, the world is a big place!

[Rubyrose]

Stud hunter... do I know you? I'm confused...

[redhead23]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Necrophiliac

[Studhunter]

Confused ~ Yep ~ That's my Rubbery Hose lol

[Rubyrose]

Oh no! You know me and I don't know you! I hate that! Lol