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Hi there, all, thank you for your responses, I am still not sure what is going on, I don't feel able to bring it up without it seeming like i'm questioning her!!!
I think she had IVF because she is a carrier for huntington's disease and so they were fertilised by themselves just screened for huntingtons. But I'm still not sure how she knows they have the same DNA unless it was a test done prior to implantation or after birth? Also, I am still most puzzled by the fact that they say they are identical twins when they look nothing like each other. I just have never heard of non-identical identical twins. I know that some identical twins are impossible to tell apart, and others more easy to, but you can still say they are extremely alike. Her twins aren't at all.
weird and getting weirder.
Also as my husband says to me: "Who cares?" I guess he's right, I've just got very curious and it would be fair to say, I know have a bee in my bonnet I suppose!!!!!!!!!
LOL.