Not sexually satisified.

[yellowduck]

I adore my boyfriend of 9 months. I'm prepared to stick with him for a long time. However, he's short only 5'8, and unfortunately his penis is equally small...i think. We were both virgins. Erect I think it only reaches a length of 5 inches max, although im rubbish at measurements. Basically, I find him very sexually attractive, Im in love with him and I love the intimate closeness i have with him during sex. But I've never orgasmed. I've come close to it and in certain positions i feel like i get a glimpse of what it would be like if he was bigger, it's almost like the tip touches something that it should all the time but it's only momentary. We've tried lots of different positions (although I've never mentioned any of this to him) and he's very loving and considerate. It's fine at the moment, but I think eventually it will get me down. What do you suggest? Thanks in advance x

[yellowduck]

actually i think it's probably more like 4 inches when erect.

[GavinH]

What has his height got to do with the size of his willy?

[philandlil]

Go to Ann Summers and buy a rampant rabbit and whatever else takes your fancy. Take your boyfriend with you and buy things together or maybe for each other and experiment.

[jno]

climaxing is more often due to stimulation of the clitoris than the thrusting of penises, so doubling the length wouldn't necessarily double your pleasure. Try to get him more interested in using his fingers or his tongue. Work together to find out what's good for you both. Obviously, it will help if you know what you like most.

You may well be right that it will get you down eventually, especially if you're constantly wondering what it would have been like if only... My guess is you probably shouldn't tell him your worries (that will just get both of you burdened with expectations), but take the initiative in encouraging him to try different things.

GavinH is right, his actual height has nothing to do with it - though it may niggle at you, especially if you're tall.

[yellowduck]

Thanks for the advice. Ps. I only referred to his height in connection with his manhood. Often they are correlational. That piece of info however was completely superfluous. I have no problem with his height - I'm shorter than him anyway.

[redcrx]

the height of a man has nothing to do with the size of his manhood believe me.

I think you need to experiment, very few women orgasm through penetration, perhaps you should try manual stimulation before thinking of toys though.

I am surprised that you say 'I am prepared to stick with him for a long time' though. It sounds as if its a chore or something.

[lightoftruth]

having a 4 inch man servant should cause no problem with you mans ability to give you a orgasm. The pleasure centres of a woman are located within 3 inchs of the vaginal canal.

If your man is having trouble pleasuring you with his little man then you should try things like fingering techniques, or if you still adore full on sex i would advise you to look up things like "coital alignment techniques." these techniques involve trying to align the mans body and penis with the clitoris so that maximum stimulation of the clitoris can occur.

A good website can be found by searching for "sex info 101" on google.

allso trying getting your man to experiement with trying to find your g-spot (grafenburg spot.)

I know it might be as ackward as hell but just talk to your boyfriend about it. Things like pleasuring yourself by guiding your boyfrinds hands and fingers can also help.

I hope this has helped and if you need any more advice feel free to ask