Ex

[Rosenicola]

Hi,
I posted a while ago saying that I was finding it difficult getting over an ex.

Basically we split in June last year as we were always arguing and he was forcing me to do things like move in with him, anyway it didn't work.
I got with my best mate (unintentionally) and then decided I wanted my ex back, then I got back with the ex and realised I wanted my mate back. Confusing and a mess around I know, don't lecture me :-) Had it all and I know it wasn't fair..
I'm still with my best mate. I don't love him and he knows this, I have never lead him to believe this neither. It's just casual and we are enjoying ourselves going on holiday and stuff. A bit of companionship I think to be honest.

But at the back of my head, the ex is still there. I just can't decide what I want and it's really frustrating at times, not even being able to make decisions for yourself and feeling content with things.

PPL are always saying to go out and meet new PPL and things like that. I just don't know where to start and to be honest, I'd be fine on my own, I am just so fed up with everything and nothing makes me happy.
Sorry to be so miserable :-)

My ex bought me loads of stuff like grey tatty bears and they are the beautiful big ones and jewellery. Do you think if I get rid of everything he bought me I would feel better?

Also views on the rest of my boring post would be appreciated :-)

[Skreecheeboy]

HI Rose. You're never going to be able to move on without spending time being single, and single doesn't mean being with somebody that you don't love. Perhaps that person that you are seeing could be the one but you need to get a bit of your own perspective on the relationship and have a conflab about it so your singing from the same hymsheet, perhaps that's just what he needs to realise or perhaps you'll meet somebody you really love! Good luck!