Should I call on the ex?

[Romeo]

It's been 3 years since my gf dumped me. Since then, we have each moved on. Still, I think about her. We've lost contact but I could call in and see her at her work. I don't want to start up another relationship. I just want a friendly catch-up. But would she meet me with a smile, or would I frighten her?

[warpig3]

Romeo, I guess that would depend on the nature of the relationship and the breakup, if a certain ex of mine turned up I would run to the hills and hide, while with others I would be happy to sit and have a catch-up. If it was amicable then I am sure she would greet you with a smile but you must first be very sure of your own reasons for contacting her, is it just a friendly catch-up or is there more to it (sorry if that sounds mean but only you know your own mind).

Good luck whatever you decide
warpig

[Reverandfunk]

Personally I would say no. Why do you want to catch up? 3 years is a long time so move on.

[4getmenot]

if she'd have wanted to stay friends you would still be speaking to her, as you said we have each moved on. Although I dont think you have, she has and this may cause her problems if she is in any relationship. I'd just leave it. xx

[idly_enjoys]

go on facebook, see if she's there, add her as a friend and send a casually toned message asking how she is... chances are she'll at least be curious as to what you're up to. Going to her work would just terrify her!

[Romeo]

Thanks for your answers. I will take your advice and not do it.