How do you know when your in love?

[dee5]

How can you tell if your in love??

[888sally888]

You have butterflies in your tummy when you think of that person.

You cant wait to see them and you laugh a lot.

Thats my theory anyway!! Do you feel the above??

[4getmenot]

but you dont always have butterflys not if you've been with someone a long time. But it hurts to be without them

[chazza]

I'm going to be a real cliche and say you just know, and if you have to ask then you probably don't!

I know that sounds cliched but people used to say that to me and I didnt understand, but I do now, and agree with it!

[4getmenot]

I'm not sure you always do know straight away, sometimes things happen to make you realise, like they go away on a trip or they get ill, or you have a big argument and get upset etc

[dee5]

Well i get butterflies, he makes me laugh, i literally count every second till i see him.
We arent going out YET but everyone we know, including both our families, think we should and that we get on so well. I really dont know.

[nuttymum]

It doesn't matter cos if you are both in love, then everything should fall into place

[Cockney_si]

You want to spend all the time in the world with them ,you miss them even when they're in the next room, you feel all giggly around them, you get nervous everytime you kiss them.....Love is a wonderful thing...lol

[nathansphase]

love is simply a bonding of different
chemicals throughout the human system to create what is known as a �state
of love,� in which in the brain is overwhelmed by a barrage of chemicals
designed to create passion, monogamy, mental clarity related to the bonded
partner and increase sex drive. It is also proven to cause mood instability.
The steroid hormone Dehydroepiandrosterone plays possibly the largest role
in creating not only the state of love, but also the potential for love as
displayed by humans. DHEA levels are 10 times higher in a normal human being
then in any other animal on the planet. While the effects of DHEA are
minimal in effect from the viewpoint psychological and neurological bonding
the role that it plays in making the feeling possible is undeniable.
Oxytocin is hormone that actually produces human bonding, in all relational
bonds.

[4getmenot]

you havent said why you arent going out yet. Do you think maybe he doesnt feel the same?

[idly_enjoys]

I think you need to be with someone a while to make sure the butterflies, the laughter, the happy anticipation etc aren't all just symptoms of really fancying them. That excitement will die down and you have to be sure you have something else left that is worth staying together for.

[rallan]

u will know its a great feeling not to be confused with lust

[earsugar]

i have a beacon

[earsugar]

or she lets you have anal on your birthday

[Mr.Nose II]

as do i!!

[GAZ6078]

Well I have been with my wife since she was 14 she's now 45 and I still miss her when she's not around and yes I still get butterflies, so if you can still say that after all this time then thats love I think.

[nadcookie]

when there not around and you miss them like hell!..But then again when i was with me ex i didnt realise how much i really love dhim until we broke up and when we did it hurt so much!..Now when were around eachother (as friends) i cant help but laught at everything because i get so nervice and pay alot of attention to him (to much so my m8s say) and even though it hurts when im around him i love being around him because i get to see him..and honestly you just know when your in love!..Good thing is me and my ex might be getting back together but were still deciding..we were broken up for 4 months and didnt even see alot of eachother and the last couple of days ebfore i was going away we connected again!...I think its real love!..Good luck XxX