dying relationships

[tazz]

i been with my bf for 7 years now, the first 4ish years of our relationship was really good, n i thought he was the one. 3 years ago we had our first baby, then when he was 10months i fell preg with 2nd baby. since then we get very little time to ourslves or together. but thing is when we do get some time we dont spend it doing something together. he spends the time we have watching telly(even when theres nothing on) n when i try n talk to him he dont listen, its like im not there. feels like im the only one thats bothered abt whats happening to us n he just dont seem to care.
has any1 else gone throu anything like this b4?

[Romeo]

Has anyone else gone through it, you ask? Yes - thousands of people, since the beginning of history. Yet many have stayed together and worked it out. A good, lasting relationship has to be worked at.

Go out places together occasionally. Do things as a family, or get a baby-sitter and do things as a couple. Or if you don't want to go out, watch a DVD together.

You have to tell him how you feel, or he may never be aware of it. You both have to talk about it. Good luck.

[tazz]

thanx 4 replying has made me feel like there could b something there at the other end of it.
he doesnt seem to wanna go out or do anything thou, n i dont wanna nag at him...just miss the way we were

[cazzz1975]

it will get easier, whilst there seems like a lot to do its easy to take each other for granted, try to keep things going (togetherness,sex,joint interests) as the children grow you will both relax more and things will come together.

most couples go through this especially when the kids are young.

[tazz]

thanx cazzz1975 it nice 2 know im not the only 1. i will try n get him 2 do things together, (kinda given up at mo). feels like im only one tryin. but i will try again. were going to my mates wedding in few weeks so that might help.
thanx again.x