Speaking minds...

[-Em-mE-]

Do you think that no matter the circumstance you should always follow your intuition and your heart with speaking your mind?
On a certain subject, I feel like I need to elaborate more to understand a situation I do not understand with my "best friend/boyfriend/ex/love" (Its comlpex trust me).
My mind is telling me to give up, but my heart wont let me.
What do I do?!

[CheekyChops]

No. Sometimes it really is best to keep your gob shut. I don't know your circumstances but you could end up hurting someone just to make yourself fell better.

[CheekyChops]

*feel not fell, obviously

[-Em-mE-]

See I wont hurt anyone though, thats the thing. . .

[Black Noir]

I always speak my mind regardless of what people think - that way everyone knows that I am straight with them whether they like what i say or not.

If they choose not to be friends or stay with me because of it - Tough sh1t !! There are plenty of other people out there that love knowing where they are with someone.

[raysparx1]

Hi Em-mE, difficult to change how you are, I tend to always speak my mind at least that way people know they will only get to hear what I truly think, I can't see the point in covering things up, that will come out eventually anyway, but some people find it hard because it can sound a bit blunt, some find it hard to tell the truth because it will hurt somebody, but I would always want the truth, even it it hurt me. hope you get it sorted, Ray

[China Doll]

Speaking your mind is one thing.... and not always advisable but depends on situation.

Dronning on and on about something you're never going to understand but that went wrong in a relationship is quite another. It's unhealthy. It's a way of clinging on to a relationship and finding an excuse to speak to someone who may have nothing else to say.

To me it sounds like you may possibly be doing the latter. I think it might be better in the long run to let it go but then I don't know the situation.