is bigger better

[littlerichad]

is there any way to increase the size of the male sex organ(excluding surgery)as i fear i`ve severely disappointed a dear friend recently....genuine answers only please...

[medico]

it may be a cliche, but it is much more important what you do with it. It is certainly true that one can be too small. But most erections are the same size irrespective of appearances!

[nrmatth]

i agree. the manner it's used is much more important. try some kama sutra books that will tell you positions that are more penetrating. if you still want to physically be larger, there are pills (not recommended) and pumps that can be purchased anywhere sex toys are sold. Honestly if you relax and study techniques and positions. the confidence in yourself and your abilities will more than make up for any size differences.

[itsonlyme]

I agree with medico, size really doesn't matter, you may be able to make up for your inadequacy in other ways, perhaps you make your dear friend laugh for instance, which, take it from me goes a long way (pardon the pun). I shouldn't worry about your shortcomings, just carry on with what you do best, just more of it.

[Doolallygirl]

I've had all different shapes and sizes (not wanting to sound like a total sl@Ppper or anything!) and it is true that it is what you do with it! I wouldn't worry about your friends disappointment, maybe they weren't relaxed enough to enjoy it themselves? It helps if you take time and indulge in foreplay for a while before having full pentrative sex. Also like advised above, different positions offer different levels of penetration. I wouldn't recommend surgery because the statistics aren't that good for performance afterwards so I'm glad you have discounted this idea! I'm not too sure that penis pumps work, I gave one to a friend of mine as a joke present and he tried to use it and it is more difficult than it looks!! Also who are you comparing your penis to? If it is people in porn video's/magazines then just stop! Normal people don't have penis's like that anyway! (Have you noticed that most men in this industry are dead ugly although blessed in the trouser department?!).

[flashpig]

I've always been scared to ask... How small is too small? I have heard the average size. I know there are some whoppers out there. Minimum size please ladies.

[jills]

flashpig.....I've never measured any that I've encountered so in all honesty, I couldn't tell you what, if any, size would be too small. I guess girth is as important as length, so relatively short and chubby ones could do the job as well (if not better) than longer skinny ones. As almost everyone else has said, it is definitely what you do with it that counts. I've encoutnered men who have 'whoppers' and sometimes they act like they're gods gift and that you're 'lucky to have them' and so make very little effort to please a women. Regardless of the size of their penis, that would mean lousy sex. Cliche time again but if you are close to the person with whom you're having sex, and have a real intimacy, then size just won't be an issue, let alone a disappointment.