Just so everyone doesn't think I'm an out and out manhater, I had a friend whose wife had an affair with a copper. She left him, because he wasn't around enough. He didn't see it this way he was a taxi driver and he just wanted to provide for them and the only way to do this was work all the hours god sent. She then informed him they were moving to France, he tried his hardest to stop it but they still went. He was a shell of a man when he lost his daughter.
Within a year of them moving over there they went out to dinner with friends and the excopper drove them home drunk. He killed my friends daughter, his exwife, one of his friends and one of their daughters. It was one of the saddest days I have ever experienced. My friend was about to sell up and move over there to be near them.
There are plenty of good dads out there and I suppose you have to think about their reltaionship is with the child before you amek the monumental decision to move to another country.