Sexuality

[pompey]

Im 16 and male. I am still attracted to girls, but i also mastbate over guys, but when im up close to them i dont fancy them, though i still fantasise bout having sex with a guy. The difference is i like women on tv and up close, but like mastbating ova men but dont fancy em up close though still fantasising over em. Am i straight, bi , or gay in ur opinion?

[hopalong]

yep

[uber n00ber]

you're 16 your at that age of experimenting and stuff along those lines just now it seems you're straight and well practically you just wanna get it on with anything and everything

[ll_billym]

It's not really that clear cut unfortunately as fantasies are just that and many people fantasise over things that they would not ever do in real life. But my thoughts are: I guess that you haven't had sex yet? If you don't fancy men close up at the mo then you are most likely to do it with a girl first. See what you think and see what your fantasies are then, you will then have a better idea of your sexuality. Don't worry about it till then....

[willow74]

I think your just 16 and your body is doing crazy things to you. You'll know yourself more in a couple of years time. Don't over analyse yourself at 16yrs old. You'll make the decision when your ready and don't push yourself. Progress your young life with girls if you are physical attractive to them and once you have had sex with a girl you may change your sexual thoughts of men. If your gay then your gay and you just carry on until your ready to tell people. Just be 16 and have fun.

[BobbyLove01]

Pompey just have your cake and eat it mate!! Bt please be safe. People like yourself like to bat for both teams or dance at both ends of the dance floor. Your 16 and finding yourself enjoy it and you will find a level that you like may it boy, girls or both. But dont hold back any feelings as they will come back and haunt you latter in life when you look back and think I wonder what it would have been like to sleep with a girl or boy. Good Luck Bobby

[MissCommando]

I can totally relate to this. I'm a 17 yr old girl and I have a bf. When I masturbate, I often think of girls as it really gets me going but when I see women in the flesh - I don't fancy them. It's weird but my bf finds it a turn on. Don't worry about it and don't feel that you should label yourself.

[georgit79]

I think it's completely natural, and don't even think you're bi. I sometimes fantasise about other girls but would never want a relationship with one. Can you see yourself having a relationship with another guy?