I've been having sex for about 3 years now and i havent noticed until now how fat my labia is. i am very thin and small but my labia seems fat and stretchy. like it hangs down very noticably to me. How do i fix this? or is there a dominant cause to this that can prevent it from getting any worse?
Women's genitalia are like the rest of them - all shapes and sizes - there is no 'perfect' shape for any part of the body.
Simply accept that this is the way you are made, and anyone who has an issue with it is too shallow to be allowed even viewing rights, never mind access!